DD has a statement (soon to be converted to EHCP). This names a home based education programme after she couldn't manage secondary school. She has ASD which presents with extreme anxiety. The programme involves having a tutor at home in the morning supplied by the LEA. She also has various appointments fairly regularly with CAMHS, SALT, OTS etc
While the tutoring started well in September, things seem to be deteriorating now. She is not engaging very well any more and struggles with the demands on a daily basis. It''s starting to seem like school at home!
We've gone from her being the highest achieving child at her primary school to a child who struggles to leave her room and will be lucky to achieve a handful of GCSES.
The strain on our family is immense ( I also have a 9 year old DS). I just feel that the situation is going to break her and probably me as well. So.....have been fantasising about pulling her out of the system altogether, letting her have a bit of time to rest and recover, then gradually do a bit more stuff when she feels like it.
The worries about this are that if we do this we may be cutting off future help from the LEA. Also that the home ed community will be difficult to access at this age and friendships hard to make. And....well many many more things really.
Has anybody out there started HE at this age? And anybody whose DC has an EHCP opted out of the system and how has that gone down with LEA?
Any advice at all would really be appreciated, her childhood is rapidly running out and I would like us to enjoy it before it'shows too late
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Is 14 too late to start HE?
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sugaraddict · 27/02/2016 06:10
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