Hi, my 7.6 year old daughter has recently started school, after being home educated for the last 2 years. I decided to send her, as I was finding it very hard. She has moderate learning difficulties and is incontinent of both. She is very lively and full on! I found myself not having a moment to think my own thoughts.
Anyway, she's at a lovely little primary school with a one to one all the time she's there. She's only doing mornings at the moment, but has made so many friends. She's very happy there and looks forward to going.
I find that I have so much more energy for her, when I collect her at lunch time. I enjoy her company more and I think she's enjoying mine more too.
Anyway, the ed psych assessed her in school and asked us if we've thought about secondary school and recommended a special school for children with moderate LD. She said she doesn't think Lucy could cope in a mainstream secondary. This special school also has alot of children with behavural issues and aggression. Lucy is the most gentle, loving little girl you could meet! She's also very sensitive and articulate. She has a very wide vocab for her age.
She is also a real mimic and very keen to be popular. This does worry me, that she would coppy everybodys traits. She does need good role models.
I'd love to say that I loved home ed, but in honesty, I found it exhausting and compleatly mentaly draining. I'm hoping that by 11, Lucy will have calmed down a bit and if she's learned to read and do basic maths, that will be a lot easier for me. Then it's the friendship thing. I don't drive, so find it hard getting to all the groups. There is only one girl of Lucy's age in HE that she likes to play with and she's not free to meet up that often.
I kind of with the ed psych hadn't mentioned secondary, now I have all these these worrys about her future. She said that on her statment review, they'll ask every year about secondary school.
If home ed is the best option for her, then I'll do it. I know the LA will try to talk me out of it though.
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Wondering about secondary school. Special school or home ed???
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mummyloveslucy · 01/10/2012 20:03
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