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How the hell do you get them to concentrate ?!
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throckenholt · 26/07/2011 14:02
I have just gone through the all too familiar cycle of giving them something that should be simple and quick to do, repeatedly reminding them to get on with it, getting annoyed that it is taking so long and they are not concentrating, and then getting angry with them.
They are 8 and 10, and it applies to just about anything I ask them to do on their own. If I sit with them and do it with them - fine, although not much of it goes in. I have found they only really get it if it they have to work it out themselves (me saying just doesn't stick). But the thing is if I don't keep guard over them all the time then they don't stick to it - they drift away mentally, ping each others ears or something equally annoying.
It doesn't matter what the subject is, whether it is easy or hard, they will rarely concentrate long enough to actually get stuck into it.
Don't get me wrong they are learning lots but I just get really frustrated that they waste so much time and can't be left for even a few minutes to get on with it. They can be left for ages to get on with other stuff (cooking, DIY etc) just nothing remotely academic.
That's it really - I don't really expect any magic solution, just needed to rant.
I love HE most of the time but I get really bugged by this cycle of me trying to get them to do anything academic on their own.
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