Hi, I'm sure most of you know of our situation now, but for those who don't. I have a 6 year old daughter with a developmental delay of about 2 years. She's being acessed for Aspurgers and isn't fully toilet trained. She has several accidents a day, of both kinds. I'm not sure wether it's behavural, as she doesn't like using the toilet.
All her play is make believe, acting out things she's seen of DVD's or TV. She likes repetition and only wants to play with me if I follow her rules and say exactly what she wants me too. She'll often get stressed if I don't say it right/ do what she was expecting. It's just soo mind numbing and irritating! I've got to the point, I can't stand it. I'll tell her to play that game on her own. (Which she does, happily.)
Everything is a battle with her, dressing as she's so sensitive to touch, being cleaned after an accident, getting her to drink enough, getting her to do her brain gym excercises, speech therapy... you name it.
We aren't doing any formal work, appart from her speech therapy and brain gym that has to be done every day. All she wants to do it watch Charlie and lola at the moment. She'll say "I'll only do my excercises if I can watch C&L afterwards". I usually agree, but once she's watching it, it just makes it so much harder to interest her in anything else.
She's so loud as well, she never stops talking, often shouting out her words. It drives me mad! Often it's just her make believe.
I just feel like I miss the time I had on my own while she was at school. I got chance to re-charge my batteries, do the things I liked doing and just having a bit of peece and quiet. I am going to be sending her to a child minder one day a week as from next week. That should help. I even feel guilty about that. When she's not around I do miss her, then within minutes of her being home, I've had enough.
I Just don't know what to do. She had such a horrid time at school, I wouldn't like to send her back, but have concidered flexi schooling. I don't think that would be good for her either though. What I'd like is some sort of nursery/ reception class for her, just 3 days a week so that I can have a break and know that she's happy, with other children and doing fun things. I know this is impossible though. (I think?)
Do you think I'd benefit from seing the doctor, asking for some anti depressants? I just don't know what to do to cheer myself up? I feel like I have the whole world on my sholders. I can't enjoy my daughters company, even though I love her with every inch of my heart. My favourate time with her is snuggeling her to sleep, when she's warm and cosy and quiet. THen the guilt hits me, thinkin of the day I've had with her. The battles, the zoning out, just not connecting with her at all.
What should I do???
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mummyloveslucy · 12/06/2011 21:00
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