Hello
We are currently in a very tough situation. DD was mostly enjoying university and plodding on until it all came to a head in the last few weeks of term- she realised that a so called 'friend' had truly been bullying and mentally abusing her. This girl is on her course and in her group of friends, all of whom didn't believe my DD when she told them about the final incident which occurred by the girl leading to my DD rushing home, before which my DD was in such a state that her flatmates ended up calling for student support team to visit her.
My DD panicked and said she didn't want to go back and face her ever again- or her 'group'- as this girl is the ring leader and has painted a bad picture and created a lack of respect for my DD. They were also all meant to be living together next year, and now my DD has no one to live with- she tried other options but all have already signed.
However she is now in a state of depression, won't get out of bed as she feels she has nothing- no purpose or anything to do. She says a part time job wont fill the void of all her friends having fun and furthering their lives when this is all she wants but can't have. I feel so so sorry for her.
I just don't know what to do to help her. She is saying she can commute, but it is an hour journey each way and I don't know if this will be good for her. Please help.
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questioner123 · 22/12/2019 15:55
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