DS isn't great at making friends so this is a real blow.
This mate was on the same course as DS and house sharing with him as well, which throws up a host of different issues.
I am trying to be upbeat with DS but I fear he's going to be lonely seeing as friendship groups have been established already.
The mate is restarting Y2 next Sept apparently. He's left for medical reasons and is a EU student so is going home to his home country for further medical treatment, which is all obviously pretty awful for him, as well. DS can't really ask the mate if he's going to keep paying for the room at this point as the mate is in hospital.
DS was with the mate in hospital last night, and said to me when he got home that it might be the last time he sees this mate which is upsetting in its own right. If the mate does ever return to uni, DS will be away on his Y3 'year in industry', anyway.
Anyway, I've told DS he could come home this w/e (mate's family are flying over to accompany him home and straight into that hospital). I hope he does.
No particular reason for posting, just feeling down about it all, the mate being so unwell, and how much it is likely to upset DS and what will happen with the household finances.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Talk to other parents whose children are preparing for university on our Higher Education forum.
Higher education
Y2 DS - best mate left uni today....
9 replies
Miljah · 24/10/2019 11:08
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.