Just wondering how independent other DCs were when they started uni/college. My DS is Y7 so still a long way to go, but I feel I ought to start doing something deliberately, to encourage his independence.
We always encouraged regular exercises and healthy eating habits so they are well part of his life now. He's a weekly boarder so is fairly independent also.
However, his room at the boarding house is such chaos with clothes, food packages, lots of loose A4 papers from classes, etc. He had a system at home so his room was always tidy but it seems like he forgot how to keep everything in place. He has to manage his clothes at school, but he brings all the dirty clothes at weekend so he doesn't do the laundry yet. He has to pick his food and drink at school, but he doesn't need to cook nor wash the dishes.
I fear he might live in horribly smelly clothes, in a room full of rubbish, and even ditch his healthy eating habits in favour of easy meals once he starts living alone...
So, I am basically on the mission of helping him become more self-sufficient before he hits the uni year. To begin with I am going to show him how to prepare simple but healthy and yummy snacks during the Easter.
Any advice or sharing ideas from experience would be greatly appreciated...
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NeleusTheStatue · 20/03/2019 23:48
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