DS2, age 23, has been with his partner for 7 plus years. She's lived with us for nearly all that time and has minimal contact with her very dysfunctional family. I love her dearly. I'll call her Bess.
Bess is currently in the final year of an MSc, for which she will get a high first. She has now been offered paid PhD places in Liverpool and Southampton. The title of the PhD in Liverpool is slightly preferable but Southampton is a more prestigious university and is one of the best in Europe for her subject.
She's trying to decide. One issue she hadn't been aware of until very recently is the snobbery she encountered in Southampton among other PhD students (she went to a state school). That bothered her a lot. She's a very strong woman but she's also fairly introverted.
OTOH Liverpool has a reputation for having a high crime rate.
She's dithering. My son, very wisely, doesn't want his views considered. If she goes to Southampton he'll be able to keep his job if he works from home 4 days a week. But she must make the best choice for her. He suggested I post here for the wisdom of MN on living and studying in both cities
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Prawnofthepatriarchy · 15/03/2019 18:40
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