Hello everyone!
I have decided to join Mumsnet as I have been trawling the internet to find out information about what is often referred to as "empty nest syndrome". This site popped up - it looks great and you all seem so supportive of one another!
Wow - this has to take the prize for the most underrated name of a syndrome going!
My youngest stared uni in September and I never imagined that it would cleave at my heart so. I knew I would miss her and that I would have a period of adjustment but I never expected this.
I am independent and by large a very positive and open minded person and have brought my girls up to be the same, so I assumed that I would be fine when the youngest one left for uni.
I find it hard to explain - I am at times tearful, lost, worried and feel very broken hearted. Some other times I am fine - these times correlate when I am busy or with friends, so I have been trying to keep busy.
I really would love to hear from others who have been through or are going through this. Some of my friends are totally ok and are embracing teenage free homes, others have been the same as me and doing the whole wobble in the middle of the supermarket routine!!
I can't say I am hugely better than what I was when she first went away but I am a little better. I was wondering how anyone else found this time of their lives and how long it took to feel totally happy with the situation.
Thank you so much for reading.
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pineapplecrumble · 07/11/2017 17:34
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