A history undergraduate to do during term time? Ds is retaking his second year having fucked up last year for various reasons. We had been paying his rent and he was living off his loan but we told him we couldn't afford to fund an extra year so we're giving him a little bit more than he had last year, but spread over two years.
He's signed up for a very lovely but very expensive studio flat in private halls which is costing more than his loan and money we can give him combined.
Despite me pointing out that he would need to get a job over the summer if he wanted to eat next year, he sat on his arse for two months, only finally pulling his finger out for the last four weeks of the holiday when to be fair he found a job and worked hard at it.
He's now trying to make me feel bad about not giving him more money, which I can't afford at the moment. I've told him I'll pay for his sports club when I get paid next week but that's all I can do.
I don't think it's unreasonable to expect him to work a few hours a week during term time and pretty much full time at Christmas. We were clear that if he wanted to retake the year then he'd need to take some of the financial consequences but he's now flouncing back to uni leaving a horrible atmosphere behind him
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noitsnotteatimeyet · 19/09/2017 23:23
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