Long story, but in a nutshell, D has been sharing house on a joint occupancy basis all year. She finished her course, end of May and returned home, leaving the others there.
She returned yesterday for the week end to find that her room was in a state of disarray. Not completely trashed, but some damage done to personal belongings, rubbish strewn on the floor, evidence of smoking[tobacco and weed]. Glass on floor. In short signs of partying.
Of course, nobody will own up. Landlady un helpful.
We intend to go tomorrow and pack up her remaining belongings and clean her room again. We will also clean the kitchen and leave it in good, clean condition. When she got back it was vile.
Not surprisingly D does not want to return to the property. Landlady is demanding that all 4 tenants return to the house when the tenancy ends to hand back keys etc, and she wants to make sure that her property is clean etc. I understand this, but we know that at least one of the tenants, who has a history of being very difficult will not attend.
Would we be unreasonable to refuse to go back to the property, and leave the final cleaning to the tenants who have caused the mess. They have all had a part in causing the mess in D's room. There is the question of getting our deposit back, but we are getting to the point where we have just had enough of the situation.
Does anybody have any advice?Long story, but in a nutshell, D has been sharing house on a joint occupancy basis all year. She finished her course, end of May and returned home, leaving the others there.
She returned yesterday for the week end to find that her room was in a state of disarray. Not completely trashed, but some damage done to personal belongings, rubbish strewn on the floor, evidence of smoking[tobacco and weed]. Glass on floor. In short signs of partying.
Of course, nobody will own up. Landlady un helpful.
We intend to go tomorrow and pack up her remaining belongings and clean her room again. We will also clean the kitchen and leave it in good, clean condition. When she got back it was vile.
Not surprisingly D does not want to return to the property. Landlady is demanding that all 4 tenants return to the house when the tenancy ends to hand back keys etc, and she wants to make sure that her property is clean etc. I understand this, but we know that at least one of the tenants, who has a history of being very difficult will not attend.
Would we be unreasonable to refuse to go back to the property, and leave the final cleaning to the tenants who have caused the mess. They have all had a part in causing the mess in D's room. There is the question of getting our deposit back, but we are getting to the point where we have just had enough of the situation.
Does anybody have any advice?Long story, but in a nutshell, D has been sharing house on a joint occupancy basis all year. She finished her course, end of May and returned home, leaving the others there.
She returned yesterday for the week end to find that her room was in a state of disarray. Not completely trashed, but some damage done to personal belongings, rubbish strewn on the floor, evidence of smoking[tobacco and weed]. Glass on floor. In short signs of partying.
Of course, nobody will own up. Landlady un helpful.
We intend to go tomorrow and pack up her remaining belongings and clean her room again. We will also clean the kitchen and leave it in good, clean condition. When she got back it was vile.
Not surprisingly D does not want to return to the property. Landlady is demanding that all 4 tenants return to the house when the tenancy ends to hand back keys etc, and she wants to make sure that her property is clean etc. I understand this, but we know that at least one of the tenants, who has a history of being very difficult will not attend.
Would we be unreasonable to refuse to go back to the property, and leave the final cleaning to the tenants who have caused the mess. They have all had a part in causing the mess in D's room. There is the question of getting our deposit back, but we are getting to the point where we have just had enough of the situation.
Does anybody have any advice?Long story, but in a nutshell, D has been sharing house on a joint occupancy basis all year. She finished her course, end of May and returned home, leaving the others there.
She returned yesterday for the week end to find that her room was in a state of disarray. Not completely trashed, but some damage done to personal belongings, rubbish strewn on the floor, evidence of smoking[tobacco and weed]. Glass on floor. In short signs of partying.
Of course, nobody will own up. Landlady un helpful.
We intend to go tomorrow and pack up her remaining belongings and clean her room again. We will also clean the kitchen and leave it in good, clean condition. When she got back it was vile.
Not surprisingly D does not want to return to the property. Landlady is demanding that all 4 tenants return to the house when the tenancy ends to hand back keys etc, and she wants to make sure that her property is clean etc. I understand this, but we know that at least one of the tenants, who has a history of being very difficult will not attend.
Would we be unreasonable to refuse to go back to the property, and leave the final cleaning to the tenants who have caused the mess. They have all had a part in causing the mess in D's room. There is the question of getting our deposit back, but we are getting to the point where we have just had enough of the situation.
Does anybody have any advice?
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