My DS1 has just turned 17 and has unconditionals for both Glasgow and St Andrews for this September. If he goes to Glasgow he can live at home, keep his fantastic part time job and we will be able to buy him a car. If he chooses St Andrews he will need to live in student accommodation (paid for by us, we can just about manage it) , find a new job in a town where work is hard to come by, his income will need to go towards food rather than be spent on socialising and there won't be any car for the forseeable!
His heart is telling him St Andrews, it's been a long held dream but It will mean tougher times for both him and the rest of the family. ....he's led a reasonably charmed life up until now and I worry about the impact on him of being hard up, away from home and friends whilst still only 17. On the other hand it could all be the making of him...I guess my worry is his heart ruling his head.
How much influence did you have over your DS/DDs decision? Do I butt out here?
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Gillybobs · 27/01/2016 23:10
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