Hi All,
Firstly this is a bit of a long post. Need to give you a bit of background info if that's ok.
I'm 34. Highest level of education is the HND I came out of uni with. I got A-levels and good GCSEs. 2 years ago we moved abroad. The deal was we'd stay in the UK if I could further my career. I couldn't. I liked my last job but it wasn't well paid and there were no prospects. I was jobhunting all the time I was there and since I've been here so that's 6 years in total. The majority of my career was spent in Marketing, Events, Admin and HR. I also have experience in the Tourism Industry and Retail. Since I've been here though I've even gone for jobs a Hotel Receptionist and lots of shop work as well as jobs in my chosen field but I'm not even getting interviews even though I'm learning the language. I'll also add at this point I've tried online freelancing too and didn't get anywhere with that either.
My DH has a business here. It generates just enough for us to live on. I can help him ocassionaly and do all his admin and accounts. I enjoy this side but not the actual work he does.
We have been ttc for 2 years with no luck. During this time I've also had a business of my own fail too. So I am feeling a little bit hopeless! I read on another thread the other day somebody sugesting distance learning to someone in a similar situation and I thought it was a great idea and could work for me. If I ever get pg, I will be a SAHM but I do need to think about what to do with myself if it doesn't happen don't I? Also, the last new qualification I did, wasn't worth the paper it was written on and I felt I wasted my time so I need something worthwhile. (It was an NVQ in Customer Service) Anyway, here's my dilemma:
- Do I study for the sake of it just something I'm interested in but that wouldn't neccescarily be useful in a job? (Classics, Creative Writing)
- Something that would help the business (Business Admin, Book keeping)
- Something to keep my skills up to date in my chosen field (Events, Marketing)
4.Do I need to go back to basics first? My best friend is that same age as me and has a managerial role within a leisure company and she's just been told she needs to renew her maths and english GCSEs in oredr to progress within her company. (We both got Bs)
5.Learn a skill I may be able to make money from at a later stage (TEFL springs to mind)
It's also worth mentioning that the language here is a difficult and not particularly useful one. I can read it but not speak it and studied 2 other languages too and found instead of learning a new one, learning a language here has just made my skills in the other 2 get worse!
So WWYD? Also, I'm going to have trouble scraping cash together for this anyway probably only a few hundred quids at the most so unfortunately I do need to take cost into consideration. And thanks so much for taking the time to read this!