I'm new to this site and don't want to come across as a 'control freak' mother ;) My daughter is in her second year 6th form and is on target to get A*'s, A's and at worst B A level results. She has know for about 3 years what she wants to study at Uni and has never deviated. The leading uni for her subject is highly rated in the uni league table and she will have the marks to get in. Having visited it in July, she was more than happy to put it as her first choice. Since then she has been on an all girl holiday abroad and met some lads from a very buzzing seaside town. This uni is rated in the 80's on the uni table and in the 80's for the subject she wants to study. We are going to visit it next week and she is going down in the October half term with a girlfriend to meet up with the lads. However, she is already now adamant that this is the uni she wants to go to and it's all based on meeting these lads. As far as she's concerned it is not open to discussion. I realise it is her decision to make but is there anything I can do as I am banging my head against a brick wall, helplessly watching her making this choice for the wrong reasons? Also, we will be contributing financially to her 3 years at uni, so should our opinion count for something?
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