On paper, I should be happy. I've always wanted a career and I have a wondeful, flexible job that pre DD i loved. i work a bit from home, so no horrible commute and the nursery we have DD in has a waiting list it's so good. DD will go there 3 days and 1 or 2 days a week with MIL. I have 35 days of leave to take before the end of the year, so I can more or less take a day off a week until next year.
However, i feel like shit. I fel so upset, I trust the nursery staff but keep thinking how will they (or MIL) know how DD likes to eat, sleep, play etc. We have done BLW but I keep thinking staff and MIL will try to feed by spoon, even though both have agreed to be led by DD.
DD has had settling in sessions at nursery and has got very distressed when I left her and although I sort of expected that as she's 10m, it's afected me badly and it feels like a scene from a film where they're dragging children away (or Torchwood last week!) She has got better each visit, which is the only positive.
What I am trying to say, badly, is that on paper all seems OK and deep down i know she'll be fine but atm I just want to run away with her and I'm dreading the next few weeks as I think I'll spend most days in tears. I also think no one can look after DD properly except me.
I'm just looking for words of reassurance that what I'm feling is normal and life will continue and DD will not grow up hating me (my sister and I have serious abandonment issues from our childhood, so think it's affecting my ability to be rational).
Sorry for long post.
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Going back to work FT tomorrow. DD is 10m. Will I ever feel happy again?
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imoscarsmum · 14/07/2009 08:15
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