Not really 'going back to work' as I have been back at work for 2.5 years after having DS 3.5 years ago. I do 4 days (2 at home, 2 with a 6-hour commute) and have got to the point where it is all (work, home, child) just too much. Love the industry, and have been in this world for 12 years, the job is interesting and rewarding but very full on and not part-time at all with lots of aggro and I am basically very bad at confrontation.
DS is quite an intense little chap, has periodically hated nursery, I fundamentally feel 4 days is far too much for him and that he would be calmer and I would handle him much better if he just did a few mornings.
Up till now, DS was a student and I had no choice, however we would soon just about manage on his salary. However i don't want to leave and have all my contacts think I'm a flake, or let down my employer/colleagues, who will be further dumped on.
Has anyone else been in this situation? what would you do? Keep a good job with good money, leave with no prospect of going back to that industry, risk realising that failings at home are my bad parenting and nothing to do with nursery/work?
Help! going round in circles trying to make a decision and I am shattered, in tears a lot of the time, low on confidence. Also trying for DC2 with no luck for more than a year... Thanks!
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elizadoolittle · 02/07/2009 13:17
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