Sorry a bit long...
I am a little upset & a bit angry to be honest as i feel they're already treading on my toes.
I am currently 31 weeks pregnant with my first baby. I haven't even had her yet, let alone started maternity leave, neither have I decided how long I will have off and if & when I do go back how many days i will do.
The thought of childcare as far as im concerned is not only a very long way off and not very high on my agenda right now, but should be down to me and my boyfriend to decided who & where she is looked after and for how long.
However it seems my mother and mother in law have already, between themselves & without asking me, sorted out who will have my baby & on what days!
They haven't even discussed it with me I found out via my boyfriend who's mother told him!
Now dont get me wrong I will need there help but feel they should either have asked me or wait to be asked, instead of pretty much telling me what to do.
I am now somehow being made to feel like I'm in the wrong for feeling like this!
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mumtobe23 · 02/07/2009 12:41
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