My friend has two children aged two and almost 4. She and her husband work full time and they have a nanny and live in housekeeper. In the past few weeks the nanny and housekeeper have fallen out about who does what, culminating in a huge row in front of the youngest child. After many, many discussions the nanny is now leaving, but my friend doesn't now know how to explain her departure to her sons. She saw a child psychologist (about other stuff) and she thought she ought to tell the truth ie that the nanny and h/keeper couldn't get along so the nanny was leaving, but I think that's dangerous. The kids (who love the nanny) will blame the h/keeper and anwyay what kind of message is it giving, that every time adults have a row, someone leaves? My friend is very committed to telling kids the truth and I respect that ie she wouldn't swallow my suggestion of saying the nanny had to leave because her husband had a new job (which he does, but that's not why she's going). I said I couldn't help, but I knew some folks who could...
Any thoughts/suggestions welcome.
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how to explain why nanny is leaving to kids
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Carriel · 29/04/2003 23:44
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