I'm having an identity crisis. Who am I now with regards to my ambition? What do I want from a job?
I've taken a year off and due to go back to my family-friendly employer when Dd is 1yr. They are generally exemplarily in all things family - (though I'm trying to get through quite a radical flex working arrangement which immediate manager though was fine, but higher up the chain they are making more negative sounds.).
My skills are flavour of the month at the moment, and an old boss has looked me up and said that I would be a strong candidate to work for him in his new job. This is in a different organisation. Although I know him to be family-friendly, realistically it will be more pressure. Dh thinks if I go for it I should go full time, as no point otherwise. However, likely v. good pay rise, and generally exciting opportunity. In a year, I will be much less in demand.
Feel like I'm moving in tiny steps in a direction I'm not sure I want to go... I don't want to 'compromise' my relationship with Dd by going after this big job thing... but don't want to be limited by my perception of the jobs that mums can do. I have enthusiasm for work, but feel guilty about it. Then again, I'm too young (24) to give up - at least I feel I'd be missing opportunities...
Also feel queasy at the whole idea of telling my current employer that I'm leaving - they've been good to me, and have lost many key staff recently. Again though, think I'm being a bit of a woman by thinking that, and that that attitude will seriously limit what I can achieve in my career.
HELP!! Please advice - especially anyone who has been through something similar... I just can't seem to stop going round in circles - think that my own perception of 'who I am now' will influence my future career whether or not I move now...
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Who am I now? Mum-job or career go-getter?
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Kif · 21/12/2004 21:05
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