I have no one in RL, so would like some MN support/advice/own experiences.
I went part time due to terrible problems getting help at home and childcare. This wasn't my choice and I'm someone who finds being at home depressing, so predicatably got VERY depressed. Meanwhile my status at work has been demolished and I feel like a waste of space. DH did less at home, on the grounds that I am there to deal with everything, and he is working even more to get a promotion he wants that would hugely increase our income.
Anticipating youngest's entry to Reception, I asked to come back FT ASAP. Then I got more problems with the summer hols and finding out very late about the school's new very slow settling in policy. I am upset about that and how I and others (dh, boss, family, CM) have dealt with it, but never mind.
My confidence is really low and I doubt I could do my former more demanding FT job. More importantly my enjoyment of it has ebbed away and I can't put up with my boss or colleagues anymore. Also nothing seems to have changed at home-dds are still as much work if not more, even though at school, and I can't even retain an expensive cleaner from an agency for more than 12 weeks. I'm really tired of trying to hire help.
I'm going through a big sea change and wonder where others have pitched up on such stormy shores? Or maybe it's just my impending birthday!!!
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majorstress · 28/09/2007 07:53
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