Hello all,
I have not posted on here before but on the childbirth thread as am due to have my baby in 5 weeks. I was having dinner with my mother last night and we started talking about interviewing nannies as I plan to go back to work somewhere between 6 to 9 months after DC is born and 4 days a week.
My mother had a real rant at me about how I will never get that time back again, someone else will bring up my baby, child will be insecure, will miss first steps and words and she says when I hold the baby in my arms I won't want to go back.
All very supportive I am sure you will agree but is she right?
Financially I can't really afford not to go back to work but equally we would not be on the bread line if I did not work.
She made a few comments about how it was a shame dp did not earn enough to be the sole breadwinner which really annoyed me. I just don't think that is an option for many people these days, espcially living in London with mortgage but it did make me start to question my decision!
I do think I would miss the intellectual stimulation and I work for a great, small company where I am valued and well paid, I really like the social side so I will think very carefully about giving this up, I don't think I would find anything similar easily.
So is she right? Will I regret going back to work? I am crazy for worrying about this now? Should I tell mum to but out?
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susie100 · 11/07/2007 16:17
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