Just looking for some opinions on this as I don't know anyone else in my position.
My career has never really taken off. I've always been in entry level/paraprofessional roles in my field, despite being qualified to work at a professional level. I'd like to focus on my career at some point in order to progress a bit (I'm on a zero hours contract at the moment...).
However, we'd also like a 2nd child (our first is 4.5y) and with me being in my mid-30s, we can't leave it too long.
I feel like I'm just beginning to regain some freedom, and with my DS starting school later in the year, it will open up the possibility of applying for jobs with more hours. But of course I can't predict whether any suitable jobs will become available or if I'd actually be offered them!
So, I guess what I want to know is: do we try for another child now while biology is on my side but forfeit any chance of me getting into decent work any time soon? This would also mean it'd be very unlikely that we could afford a larger place to live or childcare before free hours start at age 3 (and I may go crazy).
Or
Do I focus on career while I can and perhaps put a time limit on it? E.g. if I don't get a job by X date, try for another child??
Any perspective? Thanks!
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VaselineOnToast · 11/03/2019 19:35
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