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Back to work after suicide (trigger)

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mimbulusmimbletonia Thu 07-Feb-19 13:13:47

Basically as the title says going back to work on Monday after a month off after my mum committed suicide. I had been worried about telling people about it but I received a card signed by colleagues yesterday so they must all know. This is a massive relief

I'm still really nervous as they don't know how she died, but also I've been out of work for a month and I feel like I've forgotten how to do my job.

Fr3d Thu 07-Feb-19 18:19:18

Sorry to hear about your mum. Hopefully it will be like riding a bike...but if not, most employers will understand. Up to you if you want to share more with your colleagues..or just say thanks and change the subject. If your manager/HR can be trusted to keep quiet, you could share the circumstances as it may affect you for months to come. Do they have an Employee Assistance Programme?

FourRedShoes Sat 09-Feb-19 19:48:14

I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mum. flowers

I hope you're OK - of course you're not but I hope you're getting some support and very nice that people at work know so you won't have to talk about it, unless you want to.

Wishing you all the best.

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