Interesting that she thinks her husband's parents owe her a home. Legally she doesn't have a leg to stand on. Never give up work or don't hire pretty 19 year old nannies.... Or make sure you marry men who won't stray.
May 18, 2007
Husband ran off with the nanny, now his mother tells wife ?go?
Helen Nugent
A mother of three children has been served with an eviction notice by her wealthy mother-in-law after her husband allegedly began a relationship with the 19-year-old nanny.
Claire Hastings, her two daughters and her 18-month-old son must find somewhere else to live after receiving a letter asking them to leave from Louise Hastings, a lawyer. Mrs Hastings, 36, claims that her mother-in-law acted after her husband Robert got together with the teenage nanny, Amy Hillier.
The family had returned to Britain after a business failed in Australia and their home was repossessed. Until recently, they were all living in a cottage owned by Mr Hastings?s parents while they tried to rebuild their lives.
But the marriage fell apart and Mr Hastings, a 31-year-old IT consultant, moved back into his parents? farmhouse, leaving his wife and children in the 150-year-old property. He is later said to have begun a relationship with the young nanny.
Mrs Hastings has had to give up her job as a personal assistant to look after her children, and the gossip has engulfed the Wiltshire hamlet of Charlcutt.
?I am devastated,? she said. ?Not only have I lost my husband but also my home. I cannot understand why Louise is doing this ? she has three beautiful grandchildren. I?ve done nothing wrong ? yet I am being punished.?
She added: ?The two younger children keep asking where their daddy is and what can I tell them?
?I have no idea why his mother wants us kicked out. He just said that if we get divorced ?mother doesn?t want to lose the cottage?.
?My father-in-law John even told me to ?run off and find a council house?. But although I have had to give up work to look after the kids, I don?t want to sponge off the state.?
The Hastings met 12 years ago and moved to Australia in 1999. When they returned to Britain in 2004, they moved into the 200-acre farm and stud owned by Mr Hastings?s parents, Louise, 73, a civil barrister, and her husband John, an architect.
After the young family moved into the cottage 200 yards from the farmhouse, the marriage was under strain. The eviction notice was issued in January, asking for the cottage to be vacated by June 31.
Mrs Hastings said: ?They would never lose this cottage if they allowed me to stay here ? but this is having such a bad effect on the children and I. I can?t believe they are being this cruel.?
Louise Hastings said that the arrangement to live in the cottage was always intended to be temporary and that the eviction notice was served on her daughter-in-law and her son.
Mrs Hastings said: ?They both got an eviction notice which is purely protecting our rights as landlords.
?Claire moved in there as a pro-tem or short-term measure and they both need to sort themselves out. She will have to find other accommodation from the end of June unless she talks to us about extending her lease.?
Mr Hastings added: ?This is a private and personal matter that I really don?t want to talk about.
?Claire and I are getting divorced, but there is no way that my children will be made homeless.?
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