I've gone back to work after 10 months at home with the DDs who are 9 and 3. I've loved being at home but with only DPs salary it was never going to work for more than a year.
I've got a job similar to my previous role, but without the stress of being in charge and managing people. It's full-time and my commute is about 40 minutes both ways.
I've been in new job for 4 weeks and I'm struggling. I'm exhausted. I hardly have any time to call my own. DP is also knackered. Just getting washings, ironing and food shopping done is exhausting as it's all done after 9pm once kids are asleep. I'm missing the kids loads and I know DD1 is struggling with me not being in the playground in the afternoon.
We have a temporary childminder and then the kids are going to separate childcare. Which is making me sad as in my old role I'd managed to get a childminder who could take them both - which is now not an option.
DD2 will start school next year so it will only be a year before they can both use after school care.
I should be having a fun time with the girls this weekend but instead I'm trying to do all the chores I can't do during the week and getting our garden tidied up. I have a cleaner before anyone suggests getting one!
Those of you who've been there and done it, tell me it gets easier. How do you juggle everything? What do you let go off - I've stopped caring about how often the beds get changed. How do you make the most of weekends and still get stuff done?
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soupmaker · 17/06/2017 14:25
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