Definitely 4 day week rather than 5 day week! Would baby definitely have to do the long day every week with option 2 or could do / dh pick up earlier sometimes? Either is fine really, lots of shorter days and one long sounds good but I'd worry more about distance, prospects etc.
Thanks gals. Both good jobs, but I'm more inclined for option one. I'm quite sad and worried about baby being in there too long each day, but with option one, we would still get 7 hours a day together, so I think that works best too.