So, I currently work from home P/T. Mr is self employed and is trying to grow his own business whilst taking driving jobs through an agency to top up income.
DS's are 4 & 8, so come September both will be in school FT. Youngest is currently at preschool 2.5 days per week. My job is very flexible and no set hours, I just invoice the hours I do, but the business isn't exactly booming at the moment and I'm earning less and less each month.
I've interviewed for a great job, and if successful I'd be working 9-5.30, Mon-Fri. Office is 45 mins drive away, so I'd see the kids an hour or so in the morning and again an hour or 2 in the evening during the week.
If I get this job and it's the ££ I'm hoping for, I would go to work FT and the Mr would quit the driving and just manage his business around the kids, he'd do school runs etc, and we'd just need help at school holidays from a child minder perhaps.
He is 100% on board with this, but I do think he underestimates how much I do around the home in terms of working / childcare / house work / food shop / cooking etc. It's a big gamble to take the new job, jack in his driving and my PT work, only for him to realise it's not as easy as he thinks it is!!
As my interview was late in the afternoon yesterday, it fell to him to pick the kids up and start dinner. He had cleaned around and put the dishwasher on, started dinner at 5pm (shepherd's pie) but managed to take 2 hours to cook it so we didn't finish eating until almost 7.30pm, which is youngest's bedtime! I know it'll take practice and we'll probably end up eating together later, with the kids having eaten before I get home. It did take all my energy not to step in and intervene, but I guess I'll need to learn to let him do things his way...
Alternative is a childminder for youngest 2.5 days per week, plus afterschool care for both. Due to agency work there would be no set pattern to when we'd need a childminder though, so would be a task in itself to find one as flexible as we'd need.
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MrsHaitch · 19/01/2017 13:07
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