I'm beginning to think about my return to work, DS is ten months and I'm going back at the start of December. I'm very lucky, I work in quite a nice place and they have agreed to part time hours. I get paid reasonably well. On the flip side my immediate boss and I have a major personality clash, I have a long commute and I always get given the crappiest work because the others in my team at 20 years older than me.
All of that aside, I know deep down that I'm just not that good at my job. I'm OK, passable, but I'm not great. I'm in litigation and to be honest I'm not a conflict person. I'm a bit soft and too easily intimidated. I also don't necessarily have a really good understanding of the legal principles behind what I'm doing, mostly because I'm low down the food chain and a lot of what I do is processing small value matters through the lower court system until they are resolved. Writing it down sounds absolutely pathetic.
I privately raised with a few trusted friends/colleagues that I didn't feel I was that good at my job to see if they had any advice. They basically just said I was fine because I wouldn't be sacked (on mat leave!). No one has actually ever told me I'm any good.
I probably sound absolutely ridiculous and pathetic but I don't know what to do. I have a good job, I'm so lucky but I feel a duty to myself and my clients to do something I'm more suited to. I attend regular training but somehow it makes no difference.
Does anyone else feel anything similar? Or have any advice?
Ps I'm competent enough, and always have my clients' interests first, but I would love to feel like I was actually really, really good.
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Fairly sure I was crap at my job (lawyer) BEFORE mat leave
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HotKentMess · 02/11/2016 10:00
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