I am a single parent of two boys 7 & 4. I had my kids later in life,so I get tired more easily.I find by late mornings I am so tired I just need to nap but half the time don't get a chance,I end up having to see to my mom as well as she needs help with stuff that my dad can't do for her.
Before I had my kids I working full time cleaning ,whether it be offices,libraries for the council or domestic cleaning apartments in the city centre. Oh and I had two jobs cleaning doctors surgeries next door to each other. When I was having my first child I gave up the council job and city centre jobs. After having my first child I went back to work just doing the doctors surgeries.They were nice people to work for but I hadn't planned to continue this line of work in the future.I had other ideas. I had extra financial help through income support. I was also living with my parents who looked after my baby while I was at work.
I had my second child after seeing my ex a few times .After going on maternity leave,I decided not to return to my jobs.
The past year I've thought of what job I really want to do I would consider a Caring job,a nursery assistant, a delivery driver,a postal worker,even a Book keeper. I done an Open University course which was free,basically an introduction to it. It was informative,quite difficult but I managed to get throughout the tests and got a certificate of completion.I had planned to enrol in the complete course in order to get a recognised qualification. I do like numbers and am good at Maths. I ideally would love to work for myself and earn good money.That's what I need now for me and my kids. Not just living day by day scraping by. I could work from home that way while they're at school. I'm seriously thinking more about it . Failing that I will need to pull my finger out and do another job what I've listed. I have been looking for these type of jobs and have applied to at least 6 including my CV but so far no success.
The Jobcentre have told me I have to have an interview with them every three months now my youngest is 4.As far as I know my benefits will be stopped when my child turns 5. We live in a flat ,have done almost 3 years and feel I need to earn enough to cover rent,bills,food as well as clothes and everything else. Also what about childcare? My parents are too old now to cope with my kids who can be a handful (I'm thinking during school holidays). Also private childcare is costly. I saw a place near me asking for £30 a day.I know I'd get help with tax credits to pay part of it but it depends on how much I earn really. If I got a low paid job ,working 16 hours then surely it's not going to pay me to get childcare. I'd feel I'd be working for nothing. Also what happens if my kids get sick and need time off school? Or I get a call to pick one of them up. All this is a worry to me. I don't want a job that tires me out either .I also what if an employer refuses to employ me on a flexible basis. These are things I need to think about. It's mainly the childcare issue,the cost and who will have me kids if I get a call from the school. I feel my kids are still young,they need me there for them.My youngest is starting school soon and has speech problems I'm having to help him with,with instructions from a speech therapist. The homework they do especially in Reception is quite tough and challenging for a 4 year old so that's another pressure I need to be there for. At my time of life I don't need too much stress.
I have been earning a few pounds the past months on commission selling make up and skin care from home,but unfortunately isn't enough. I also cleaned a ladies house for a bit of pocket money,the past 2 years .She had increasingly ill health and I helped with other chores as I went about things. She really appreciated my help. Sadly last week she tested to say my help Isn' t needed now as she is moving away to be by family as she hasn't long to live.As you can imagine I was quite shocked. So that come as a bolt out the blue. I just need guidance here on how it will work out for me when I finally get a job. I'd ideally like a home working job,being self employed. Thanks in advance.
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lukeymom · 21/07/2016 23:16
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