I'm due to go back to work 2 days a week in June. My mother initially said (tentatively) that she'd love to have dd (8 months now) for 1 day a week, and yesterday said that she'd love to make it 2 days because she thinks that having a childminder for only 1 day a week may be disruptive. I agree deep down. I can't think of anyone I would trust more and would rather look after dd. In many ways this would be the perfect outcome. I just have a nagging worry that it might be a bit much for her. She's a very fit and active 62 year old, looked after three of us when she was younger etc. I just don't want her to see looking after Lucy as a chore, or as work. I want her to have fun with dd in the way that I think only grandparents can - not having the nitty gritty, but only good times. She loves dd more than she ever expected, and she's the first grandchild. Both my brothers live abroad and she said that she might never get the chance to do this again. And I'm planning to have another baby, and give up work completely, some time next year. Basically I wondered if anyone else had experience of this, and what were the down sides and what were the plus points, apart of course from having a baby cared for by someone who was a wonderful mother. Did you lay down any ground rules about discipline? Was it too much, too exhausting for a granparent? Am I worrying about nothing??????
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