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Am i being selfish??

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mummysbigsmiles Wed 31-Jul-13 13:57:56

My daughter is 10 months old and myself and her are currently living with my father, im 23 and i had never been out of employment until i had her, when she is 12 months i am looking to start back work.... I have been looking at part time employment but it doesn't reach what i am currently getting on benefits, so my thinking is that i would just dive into the deep end and seek full time employment, the reason being is because i want my own house, i want whats best for my daughter and to give her everything she deserves in life, but am i being selfish to start full time when she is so young... I already have a place for her in a nursery and because my auntie is the manager she can start at anytime. Am i being selfish? Help mumsnet!

yabyum Wed 31-Jul-13 14:01:19

No, you are not being selfish. You are being responsible, and you are to be applauded.

Who is saying you are selfish?

mummysbigsmiles Wed 31-Jul-13 14:10:42

Thank you! No no one is but i think im just worrying about leaving her. Its only myself her dad is nowhere to be seen so i think im maybe being overprotective....

TheSurgeonsMate Wed 31-Jul-13 14:17:25

No. You are doing the right thing. Are you worried you'll enjoy working too much? If you do, it's a bonus!

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