....and I was so upset to see him so distraught that I'm seriously considering not going back to work but fear I may regret it later.
He's 8 months old and baby DC3 but with a big age gap to the other two. I love my job but it won't make much difference to us financially whether I go back or not considering childcare and cost of getting to work. If I don't go back, however, I will probably never be able to get back into it so it's not a decision that I am taking lightly.
I've always known that DS would be my last child and I am trying to enjoy him to the fullest and at the same time to learn from my mistakes as a parent. I do believe that children benefit from the confidence of having their needs met and for this reason I try not to let him cry and to be always available for him. For example, unlIke my other two children, DS3 is still breastfed at 8 months (and no plan to stop soon!) and we co sleep. I feel this is my last opportunity to "get it right" as friar as humanely possible.
For this reason, the idea of him getting distressed before he gets used to being left doesn't feel right. On the other hand I wonder if I'm being ridiculous and would really appreciate other people's perspectives!
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AnnaLiza · 09/10/2012 20:32
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