niggle I know I know I'm lucky. Although doesn't feel it! I want to be the one at home... DP got made redundant and just hasn't found a job to justify paying our childcare for 2 under 5 so is working nights in a supermarket instead.
I took 3 weeks parental leave at the start due to childminder also going on maternity leave then my full year then holiday...we have never been so skint!!!
sympathy from me. I know some people have it much harder but that doesn't mean you have to put up and shut up ;) . course it is going to be hard for you. but like a PP says you might just even enjoy it....slightly