Would really appreciate advice here.
I am working part time in a job I dont' want to be in 3 days a week. I am trying to look for another job and I;ve got good qualifications but not much experience outside current role. So to sort this out on the days I am not at work I am doing some things in the NHS, schools, and childrens centres on a voluntary basis. I dont' just want a job I want a career and DH probably wouldn't be too happy with a massive pay cut.
The thing is doing all the above and applying for the odd job is pushing me over the limit and although I don;t really want to I have ended up putting DS with a childminder for an extra 4 hours on top of the 3 days at nursery he already does. I don't have much support and DH is at risk of redundancy so feeling really under pressure from all angles. There is no option of quitting my job given this but also I think my confidence goes down when I am at home all the time.
Where do I find the balance between wanting to do all the extra stuff because I want a career (which I am feeling is probably fairly selfish) vs looking after my DS who is very precious and, with very little chance of having any other children, particularly special to me.
One good thing is when I volunteer with NHS I do get to take DS with me :)
I am also trying to cram in counselling sessions to sort my head out as well which are helping but is another thing to fit in the week.
Thanks for reading.
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want a new career but how can I balance this with looking after DS?
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JackinLeeds · 19/09/2011 20:13
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