I am coming up to a bit of a cross roads in my life and have been struggling for a long time with what to do when my youngest starts school. Well that happens this Sept and I still haven't decided!!
I have two DCs and I have worked part time since the first was born in 2004. I used to be a PA but after having my daughter started doing some book keeping work as it was very part time (1 day a week) and flexible so I didn't use childcare at first (worked from home). When DD was 5 and DS 3 I moved jobs (still book keeping) and did 2 days a week and my MIL looked after them for a small amount of money. The job is very well paid, close by and flexible which has been a life saver. However it is fairly mundane and I work alone in an office most of the time which means work is very lonely.
I thought for a while about doing a degree and toyed with some ideas (teaching and nursing mainly) as I would love to get out of the office based role and make a bit of a difference. But I decided that the struggle to get the degree itself would be too much as we needed my salary. I did apply for a job in London as an accountant and got down to the final 3 even though I am not qualified I just have lots of experience (6 years now) but didn't get it. The salary was very good which has boosted my confidence.
Anyway I have two choices facing me. I can:-
Stay in my current job and instead of working two full days spread the hours over 3 school days so my Mum and MIL don't have to have the kids anymore (although they are both a bit sad about this) then in school hols go back to 2 full days a get help from them. With my 2 spare days I can have one at home doing housework and the other volunteering
OR
I can go back full time. I would need to commute to London (20 mins train ride away) and the childcare means that on the salary I expect we would have an extra £500 a month.
I have never had a 'proper' career and I would kind of like to have one, plus the friends I could make at work would be great and time off from housework etc would be great (I would definitely get a cleaner and noone would be in the house much of the week which would cut down on mess). But I would see my kids less (just weekends and holiday time as they mornings and evenings would be rushed I suppose). Is that worth it for £500 a month? We don't NEED that money as DH has just had a great payrise and promotion. But part of me thinks I am a youngish mum and I want to get somewhere and have good money when they are teenagers and when they leave home so DH and I can travel etc etc.
Arrrggghhhh! Too confused! Help!
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AngryFeet · 02/07/2011 18:46
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