Early reader recs(37 Posts)
I don't think my daughter is gifted, I should say at the start. My son is, and you could have an adult conversation with him in preschool. DD is completely normal and you, well, can't. She's bright and happy and curious and what have you, imaginative, lovely, and life is going well and normally in all other ways. BUT - she taught herself to read last summer, has taken off like a rocket with it since, has her nose permanently stuck in a book, and I don't know what to give her now. She's finished all the reading book sets I got from the Book People, and has read and reread every picture book and is now asking constantly for more books. She got given a boxed set of Enchanted Wood stories on her birthday on Thursday and she has read 3 of the 4 already. Those are fine as they're at her maturity and comprehension level, but I am at a loss as to what to give her next. She's too small for CS Lewis, Harry Potter, etc etc. and frankly Blyton school stories would have emotional themes way, way over her head. Can anyone recommend books for a preschooler, with the normal maturity and understanding for her age, but a bizarrely developed capacity and desire to read? If she were gifted in other ways then it would be easier, as she'd be able to manage books for older children. I suppose what I'm asking is for recommendations for chapter books meant for parents to read young kids. I think Dahl would probably scare her, frankly.
Sorry to ask you, but frankly there's nowhere else I can go without it sounding like a stealth boast. I know loads of you will have had this, and can therefore hopefully help.
@RueDeWakening those recs are goldmines, thank you. Those we already have are existing hits, and many I'd not heard of. Ideal.
Talking about feminist, DD is recently enjoying "Great Women who changed the World" and "Great women who changed history" by Kate Pankhurst (fairly dense picture non fiction books), and the Mariella Mystery series (chapter books) by the same author. Don't think they're particularly scary or anything. May not be wordy enough for you but similar to e.g. tom Gates or 13 storey treehouse (which my two also love).
Ooh, those sound great, thank you! The Blyton etc are fab stories, but there's such constant subliminal gendered stuff in them, especially older books, and it's good to counter that. I have a lot of those books for my son, too - the boys who dared to be different, kind men who changed the world type ones, and I have the rebel girls series around as well, but the Pankhursts look great for age.
One of the issues with her reading independently at this age is she's not got the critical thinking skills to notice this stuff yet - her brother did, so he raised it. He was appalled to overhear Malala's situation on the Today Programme one morning and racism made about as much logical sense, so he deplored it. ASD can be very useful when social justice is involved - lack of logic is so instantly apparent with prejudice. My little girl is fiercely imaginative, but logic less of a strong suit! Best example was potty training: at two, I explained to my son that poo and pee in pants equals nappy rash, and how the acids interacted and irritated his skin. Never pooed another nappy. My daughter, at 3, smiled fondly at me and explained I was completely wrong: monsters lived in her bottom, extended ladders at night, came down and bit her when we were all asleep, and then we saw it the next day. Nothing to do with poo or pee at all. Didn't matter what we said: SHE KNEW! Along the same lines, my son worked out that Santa was nonsense before he was 6, on solely logical grounds - think my girl will be happily choosing to believe at 10! Just so different.
I’d give her non fiction op - children’s books about the world, space, the body, science etc you may as well get her learning as she’s reading
I would encourage her to work on her ‘weaknesses’ though. Do 5 mins drawing or maths a day. Short bursts of the things she’s not so good at.
That's adorable re the potty training! Real insight into how their little minds worked, both of them.
She's actually fairly good at maths, given she's a preschooler. She can count to 100, knows times tables up to about 5 (she taught herself that, using a lift the flap book her brother had) and she can do basic arithmetic. She enjoys drawing, too. It's not as startling as her reading, but she's doing okay, and mildly ahead of expectations, in all other areas. The only gap is writing - she can do her name, more or less, but that's all she is interested in - but as she loves drawing, bead-threading, playdoh etc that's not any sort of issue that I can see. Most of the world think we teach writing too soon, anyway. She's got years ahead for that. I'm happy to let it all be led by her.
She's normal in most ways really. A little ahead, but nothing very dramatic. And she's so small and they learn at fits and starts at that age, so who knows if she's going to be ahead at all in a few years, and really, does it matter? I'm keen to feed her interests, but that's about it. I think it needs to come from her, not us, for it to have value.
She loves science. Loves the Curious Pearl, Science Girl books. Adores Maddie from Do You Know? and has been to several of her live shows. We do some early years kits with her, which she loves. But she's just not got the conceptual grasp her brother did at this age, and again, that's fine. I do also think it's very easy to assume learning has to be formal information and facts - that they're little vessels, there to be filled. The way I see it this age, everything's learning. Almost the whole world is new to them, and so many experiences are as well. They learn as much baking pretzels, with yeast being fed, and ingredients weighed, and then shaping and then melting butter and cinnamon, and discussing the history of spices, as they will from a longer book. More, in many ways, as it's so hands on and sensory. I do really think that reading should be about joy - at all ages, partly, but at her age solely. We give her a lot of options (the Wonder series someone mentioned below sounds perfect, thank you) and then she can choose what interests her. Really I was hoping for what you've all given me, which is recommendations to expand the options I can provide. They'll remain options, and she can follow her own interests. And I do have to say, as a mum with a child who has limited imagination, that there's a risk in assuming the only learning is in facts. Emotional learning is equally valuable, and the imaginative fuel for that in novels is equally important, to me.
She's enjoying life, and I am mostly keen to ensure her sensory experiences and social life isn't harmed by her brother's restrictions, really. Lots of dolls, train sets, lego and representative play are my priorities for someone this small. Her love of books is wonderful, and I'm absolutely hoping to provide enough to keep that interest going, but I'm also aware that there should be a balance. Life is going to make a lot of demands on her, as she grows up, as it does upon us all. I want her early years to be ones that build her confidence and sense that the world is joyful, really, and right now books are integral to that for her.
Again, thank you all for the understanding, interest and suggestions. They are invaluable.
Rue’s list is spot on and reminded me of The Hundred Mile an Hour Dog, Mammoth Academy and Milly Molly Mandy. There were in a junior classics collection that introduced a load of fantastic authors, but it’s currently in a dark room with a sleeping dd. I’ll try to find it in the morning.
Some excellent suggestions on here, OP. I was going to say books like Winnie the Witch chapter books, Worst Witch, Paddington Bear and Winnie the Pooh - as other have mentioned.
Knitbone Pepper is a series worth trying.
But I wouldn’t do How to Train your dragon yet. My nearly 8 year old (good reader) is reading these and I was reading some with her tonight. They are brilliant books, but the vocabulary is a bit more sophisticated/longer more complex sentences than many of the books mention on this thread. I would honestly leave these books until she is a bit older to get more enjoyment out of them.
All these suggestions have been brilliant, thank you - she's really enjoying several of them already!
Will leave the Dragon ones for a bit, then. My ten year old actually still loves them, but he was a good year or so older than her now when he got into them, and as said, his understanding was ahead of hers even if reading ability was behind.
Many I thought of have been suggested. I found the library helpful in trying new books and you may be able to order online or by phone ( we can the latter), so just involves asking someone to pick up if order in?
Dottie Detective books from the library
Winnie the Witch
The Worst Witch
Giraffe, Pelly and me by R Dahl
Geronimo Stilton books
Claude books ( may be too simple but lovely books to read in one go)
The magic Faraway series
Someone of the simpler Terry Deary history books
The National Geographic Kids magazine
The Dragonsitters books
My DS was an early reader, I had always read to him, he had big books of CBeebies character stories which he loved, I started buying him packs of short stories of characters he knew, Bob the builder, Fifi & the flowertots, Topsy & Tim, Ladybird books, books with one page of words & one of pictures, short stories of dogs, Animals of Farthing Wood. We graduated to Paddington, Olga Da Polga, Humphrey Hamster, Horrible Histories. I encouraged him to make up stories that we wrote together & he drew pictures, don't underestimate the value of comics, he loved comics that had his favourite characters in them, quite a few of the ones from television follow the phonics reading system & have exercises that children can complete with writing & stickers.
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