I have a 6yo summer born DD in Year 2. She has always been a strong reader and generally loves nothing better than to sit with her head in a book. I knew she was ahead of her friends but figured she was just at the more higher end of normal rather than an outlier. She is currently in the waiting list for a possible diagnosis for ASC. Last year, I was told she was either on target or just ahead for both reading / literacy despite requiring books from the year above but her teacher was away on sick leave for some time so that seemed to confirm my thinking that perhaps she was just at the top end rather than a real outlier.
We had her teachers meeting this week and the teacher stated that she has already capable of the reading / literacy targets for year 2, that she is having to work away from her (top group) of reading comprehension because she finds the work too easy and doesn't like doing the pair work for literacy because there is no one to match her with that is on the same level. We have had lots of problems with her going into school and I do think some of this is because she is saying she is bored and not being challenged, although some of this is possibly ASC related and struggling with demands too.
I knew a friends child had been moved up a year for his strong subject and asked whether that might be a possibility. The teacher said she was capable of doing the work and it was a good idea. However, today I was told she was not able to move up a year because "she would always be ahead" meaning they would need to accommodate her until she reaches her final year and then there would be nowhere for her to go in Year 6. Instead as she is class librarian, they want her to catalogue the books in the class and write book reviews.
I'm going to challenge the school on this but feel a bit let down by their response. Has anyone else had experience with this? I would not want her moved ahead a year completely as she is Summer born and not strong enough in other areas. Both my husband and I were ahead for age academically and while my husband was at a selective class, I was left to coast and became bored and disruptive for much of my later primary years. I really don't want to have that happen to her.
Any advice much appreciated.
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HRMumness · 17/10/2018 10:06
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