Parents of musical children.... anyone else ready to throw in the towel??? Not sure how much more moodiness / attitude I can take! We seem to be in this endless cycle of tears and tantrums (me and them!) and I'm starting to question whether it's really worth it. DD is 9 and doing very well on violin but has so much potential! But she should be doing at least an hour of practice every day now and we waste so much time arguing.... she can't bear any criticism, no matter how positively put. But if I leave her to practice independently it's just a total waste of time! She doesn't fix mistakes - just glosses over and plays on through. She's just not a details girl and I know she's only 9 yrs old but playing grade 5+ repertoire she can't just cross her toes and hope for the best! I fear this endless negativity is going to ruin our relationship and hate that I'm turning into a pushy 'tiger mum', but on the other hand, we all want our kids to fulfil their potential, right??
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