My DD1 is 2y10 and, I think, very bright. I'm not going to list all of her achievements, but I'd say she's meeting some of the maths targets for Year 1 and some of the reading / writing targets for Reception (I'm a primary school teacher so this isn't based on nothingness).
Problem is, she struggles with social situations. She expects to be able to tell other children what to do, and then does not understand why they won't follow her commands. She is emotionally a 2y10 and she struggles with sharing / taking turns/ rule following like you'd expect. Her cognitive skills don't match with her emotional skills, and that's the main issue.
I don't really know how to socialise her; she gravitates towards older children but they want nothing to do with her because, in their eyes, she's a baby. In her eyes, she's anything but. She is bored of children her own age, but the older children aren't interested in her.
She was in nursery for a term (childminder before that) but it was so noisy, busy and chaotic that no-one really knew who she was. I actually had two quite big safeguarding issues with the place, so I decided to take her out when I went on maternity leave.
She's been at home with me for the last 7 months (with the baby) and she loves learning; she's keen to learn to read, write, count etc but it's the socialising that's the issue.
We go out every day and we meet my NCT lot (ie children she's known since birth) at least once a week, but it seems like she's in a different place.
So what do I do?
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Juniper40004 · 14/08/2016 00:58
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