I thought of posting on the preschool topic but sure I'll sound ridiculous to people so hoping for wise words / advice here if anyone happy to help.
DS is at such a lovely nursery with active, cheerful teachers and all manner of things to do - painting, climbing, reading, gluing... He is 3 and has had 6 weeks to settle and has bonded with the lovely teachers so this doesn't seem to be an issue.
But he keeps hiding to avoid going in, gets undressed again in the hope he doesn't have to go and complains again and again that the toys are boring and that nursery is boring. I heard him say this to the teachers directly but don't really know what to do as they have already created a wonderful, playful environment. My instinct is he does find the toys boring as he has never engaged with toys at home and always seeking new information- from maps he can learn new cities on, new library books that teach things and his sister's maths books which he asks to do a lot when DH is around as maths not my thing much.
Would you raise it as I don't know how to help him when the teachers' job isn't to challenge him intellectually (he is fine at home as fits in with our older DD) plus he's one of many children there. DD who is 8 thrived and learnt so much through play at hers.
We wonder whether to give it longer but it already feels so long when he's resisting it still or has anyone kept their child at home for longer in this situation? DS is quite slow to interact with his age group so I hoped nursery would help this but maybe it won't. He plays well with older children at home.
His teachers mentioned they moved him to the older children for storytime .
Sorry this is long but I feel so unsure what to do as he's such a bubbly bouncy and sweet little boy it feels sad to see him so negative.
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Looseleaf · 21/11/2014 13:02
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