I was just wondering at what age you can tell if a child is gifted? I feel uncomfortable talking to my Health Visitor or GP about it as I don't want to sound like: 'Oh my child is so wonderful, isn't she so clever!'. I hope you can help me distinguish between gifted and just bright - as this is my first child.
My little girl is 22 months. From a very young age (3 months) she was just not interested in any normal toys, she would prefer everyday items. Even those she would play with for two minutes and move on to something else. She always seemed very frustrated and would resort to crying about everything unless moved to a more stimulating environment.
Her developmental milestones weren't reached early at all. If anything pretty late but she would be perfect at them. For example, she started walking at 15 months but pretty much ran immediately. She started talking at 18 months but stringing two and three words together straight away.
We go to various playgroups and compared to most other children her main difference is very advanced emotions. She plays with dolls, nurturing them, feeding them, telling them that 'mommy is here', she tells them stories to sleep while other kids her age aren't doing those things.
She also has an incredible memory. We went on holiday with eight people to an island in Greece, I was doing the washing and she could tell whose outfit was each persons even if they had only worn it once.
She is also a little sponge, you show her something once and she repeats it immediatly. I speak to her in Greek and she grasps the Greek words very easily and is able to differentiatet her English language from her Greek.
My questions is, is this normal or not? I will tell you why it is concerning me. I was evaulated as gifted very late (age 15). My parents were not supportive of this and did not send me to a difference school, they didn't nurture my abilities and I was very stifled and a poor state school. I then went on to become a very difficult and frustrated teenager and rebelled against academics and my teachers. I don't want the same for my daughter if this is the case.
Where do I go from here? Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Athenean · 05/10/2011 09:19
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