Just days after having a great report (cue Smug Parent Face!), where my 5yr old is now recognised as being 2 years ahead academically in reading, writing and maths, his behaviour has suddenly deteriorated at school.
The school has finally listened to me when I said he was bored (18months later!) and picked up the level of work to where they feel he can 'hack it'. That has gone on quite well until the last couple of weeks where he is just being DAFT.
I did have to remind his teachers that he is - at times - behaving quite normally for a 5 year old boy (he is an August birthday so youngest in the year, too), and that their expectations are that for a 7-8 year old ref. his academic age!!
But even then, he is being quite daft, and due to its suddenness (he was always immaculately behaved at school before this), I wonder if they think they are extending him as he's 2 years ahead, but in fact he is capable of more; he does say that it is 'boring' quite a bit, and some of the times he is being daft is when they are doing stuff he can do without blinking.
I know they feel he has to learn it, but a lot of it he seems to know 'instinctively'. (how to spell tricky words with complex phonics, and multiplying 3 digit numbers in his head - which I can't do!).
Problem is that his behaviour is starting to p*ss off his friends too - he's not being malicious, just daft, and it is disruptive.
Anyone else who has a smart cookie who suddenly started acting up? Any advice (including how to handle the teacher, and what to say to the kid!) welcome.
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abeltasman · 17/02/2011 21:36
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