Hi,
I posted on here about my DD1 before and I am now seriously considering a tutor. This is so that I am taking things into my own hands as I am not sure that school will do anything from what I've gathered so far.
I don't know whether my DD1 is gifted or talented tbh, all I know is that I know and the teachers know that she is way ahead of what's been taught at school and that she picks/devours things very quickly.
In reception I was concerned but everyone kept telling me "it's only reception etc" so I was hoping that in Y1 things would improve.. until I went to the teacher asking about what was going to happen generally with the class (and with my DD1) and the gist was that their last teacher did not cover all of the EYFS last year, and therefore a lot of catching up needs to happen this term. And they won't start the National Curriculum until AT LEAST next term..
The teacher suggested that if I want to see my DD1 progress beyond the EYFS this term I do extension activities/teaching myself as there is no bandwith to do it in the class. To be fair I was given loads of suggestions but my heart sank as I just do not have the time required to do it..
So now what do I do?
She got 9s in all areas in her EYFS report,(so clearly she is ready to go ahead with something else!) but I wasn't elated by that result because very little of her 9s had been taught at school, for example I know that numbers were only done up to 10 and they didn't even start on phonics until Jan and sending reading books home in Spring.
And even then there is a huge disconnect between what she is reading at school/at home, and they know it, but they are of the school of thought of sending one book a week and painfully going through every book in the reading scheme....
She loves school but started to say that the numeracy lessons in particular are "easy". I do read at home every night with her, and she wants to do other stuff on top, but with 4 children under 6 I am not able to devote the time she wants/needs from me. I find that reading is the easiest (and most enjoyable) part to do, it's all the rest that I am worried about tbh and how things will look further down the line.
I am therefore thinking of getting a tutor for her once a week, who will at least progress her a little in each area of learning and give her some stimulus/way to progress at school too. Do you think this might work?
I am unsure if this is the right thing to do, because I have previously fought the impulse to tutor her at home, as she is so young and I firmly believe she should be coming home to relax and have a play at this age. But I am not sure what else to do???
I thought about home educating her but she would hate it, as she loves the social side of school. Plus I am trying to keep a career alive....
School are not in the slightest concerned about her as she is happy, sociable and disciplined and so does not present a problem. The teacher kept telling me "but she is so happy and settled and we do keep her busy, so don't worry about it".
Which is great, but kind of a different issue altogether.....what would you do in my situation? Thanks for making it this far!!!
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emy72 · 22/09/2010 14:28
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