Hiya,
Bit of background about DP.
He has been drinking for years but over the last couple of years it has gotten worse.
I worry so much about his drinking, his health, his future. We have two beautiful children and I want them to grow up with their daddy, who has bundles of energy, who wants to go out all the time and have fun.
My DP and I don?t live together at the moment now, although we are still ?together?. He has depression and alcohol is his way of coping with that, but I know that also the alcohol is the cause of it too.
He doesn?t come up to see us that often (Maybe once or twice one week then nothing the next) and it is because he has no energy, I think, to get out of the house.
It used to be vodka that he drank?.then he moved onto cider, which, in his eyes, wasn?t as bad as it was only an unbranded cider. He is a functioning Alcoholic. He gets up, and goes to work every day.
He has our daughter stay with him one night a week, and every time he has her I am worried sick that that will be the night something horrible happens. What if he has had so much to drink and passes out, banging his head? What if our daughter needs taking to the Doctors/A&E and he is too drunk to drive her, or worse, he decides he is sober enough to drive?
I don?t know why I am posting on here to be honest. Maybe just to get things of my chest, and see it all written down.
He decided to stop drinking yesterday. He stocked up on energy supplies and food. I want to believe that he will stop, but, we have gone through all this before, time and time again, and I have supported him every single time. Maybe this time is different. Maybe not having the kids and myself with him has made him see sense. Who knows.
And how do I know I am being supportive enough? Do I agree with everything he says? I do not have a clue?..I do not want to lose him, I do not want to have to explain to our children why their daddy is dead, and why he chose alcohol over us.
I really hope this is it, this is the time where he really has decided to get his life sorted.
Sorry for any grammar/spelling mistakes, tears are in the way
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CopingWithAlcohol · 26/01/2010 19:04
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