Anyone had a bad experience with a health visitor?
Brief outline-
ds 3.9 has been referred to social services as the health visitor has said he has not been socialising enough and his speech is delayed which he is getting therapy for.He has had 1 session with the speech therapist and from this they have come to the conclusion he may have dyspraxia.The health visitor has met him about 3 times and never does anything to encourage a response from him.
This was a bolt of the bliue and still feel numb,angry upset.Don't know what to think!!
She has also added she has referred dd who is just 2 ,could'nt believe it!!!
When asked why she said she has never heard her speak!!She is a shy girl around people she does not know well ,and yet again the health visitor has made no positive steps to be warm towards ethier children,what does she expect.
Under normal circumstances they are both happy children who roleplay and communicate in the way children do.My dd does have a few words she says,mum,arm ham kick duck etc
Am just stunned and shocked as to what on earth this health visitor is doing.She just referred themwithout no warning to me and no indication his development stages were that far behind.As far as i am concerned apart from the speech taking longer his other skills are fine.He can work the computer,he can draw,make things cook as great imagination skills etc etc.
This woman is totally out of order and i wondered if anyone else has had a similar experience and what do i do now.I am not accepting this referral.
I know we will get a chance to have i say when the social services call but it should have never got this far.
Also she came into my house and the first thing she said was the speech therapist thinks he has dyspraxia and will need intensive therapy.To which i burst out crying and when i calmed down and asked what that means and could i have done anything to prevent it ,she could'nt answer any of my questions.Surely something like this should have told to me by the speech therapist who could then have answered any questions i may have had.
This is a complete and utter nightmare and think i am going to wake up soon and it's all been a bad dream!!
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holynight · 17/05/2005 13:26
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