Shiney...did you like him enough to see it heading in that direction?
Because I would think about going on a date that would give you something to talk about, if either you did, or like him enough to see how things work out.
If I ever get out of the mess I am in I wouldn't like to be the man who tries to get close to me. I am emotional time bomb, but I sure as hell hope someone gives me a chance even if I don't handle it very well.
Maybe this is what would differentiate him from all the other fish, dunno, I really understand the gagging for 'ahem'....a good tomming feels like but it depends what you want in the long run.