Does anyone have any experience of Multiple Sclerosis, either personally or have family members suffer from it? I have read leaflets and know what to expect on a physical level, but how do I help when the support needed is more emotional?
My SIL is 21 and was diagnosed last year. She has recently begun to talk more openly about her illnes and seems to be accepting it at last. However, my brother appears to be having a job handling it, even to the point of not mentioning in it in her presence. He wants to come to see me on his own to talk about a visit they have had from an MS nurse who has discussed things in great detail with them.
I'm a little wary however of talking about SIL behind her back, as it were, and feel that she should not be subject to the family talking about her rather than with her iyswim? But, of course I still want to be able to give support to him as well as her.
If anyone can offer me some advice here I would be very grateful. Would I be wrong to discuss things with my SIL directly, against the express wishes of my brother do you think? I'm in two minds whether to sit on the fence and just be there to listen to both of them when they need me or be pro-active but don't want to cause tensions within the family.
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How do I support my brother and SIL in living with Multiple Sclerosis?
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QueenEagle · 10/05/2005 12:57
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