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She was 8lb 2oz and I suffered 2nd degree extended tears. So I was sutured inside and out. My question is when do the stitches go away? I can still see them clearly and although they're not as painful as before I still feel some discomfort.
Another question I have sorry if its TMI but I feel pain / discomfort in the clitoral area now too Almost like it fills up with air!!I'm just praying that this is normal (ish) and I havent done myself an injustice down there!! That would be more than i could bear.
I had exactly the same with mine and the same feeling. I think I even got fed up and had dh cut one of the stitches that didn't disolve after 4 weeks or so. They eventually did all dissolve. And you do eventually go back to feeling normal, but it does take ages.
When you have your 6-week check-up, ask the doctor to have a look just to make sure that all is healing as it should. Some doctors don't check, jsut ask 'Everything OK?' and that's the end of the check-up, but the first time around I didn't heal properly so I'm glad that the doc did check. Second time around the doc was surprised that I wanted her to check, but she did, and I was very reassured by her remarks on the state of my bits. And, TBH, at 4w I couldn't tell the difference between the time when I healed well and the time when I didn't. Don't mean to worry you, most likely you are healing well - it just feels strange to you (not surprising! ).
mine didnt really dissolve, they came away on loo paper and in the bath, i suffered a 3rd degree tear (inside and out) and i remember the worst was the feeling of tightness from the stitches and awful itchiness when i was healing...drove me mad!
Have you been having frequent baths? When I was at home I had baths twice a day and it kept my stiches moist and more comfortable. I really noticed the difference when I was in with DS back in hospital, I felt as though they had become infected and I was really uncomfortable. Put a bit of savlon in to help make sure it stays clean. I hope you feel better soon.
Hi, i also tore very badly during labour and was stitched inside and out i cant remember how long the stitches took to dissolve but i can remember feeling uncomfortable down below until around 6-8 weeks i did find that frequent baths with tea tree oil or lavender oil helped ease the pain and tightness. hope this helps.
Hi Tamula - I too had lots of stitching inside as well as epesiotomy (sp?) scar. It took me about 14 weeks before I was totally pain free and my 'bits' looked normal again. As for clitoral pain- I had exactly what you describe. I too thought that it had been damaged during birth. After about 12 weeks of pain I realised that the pain was actually coming from underneath my clitoras - my symphysis pubis (the part where your pelvis joins at the front). I have since been diagnosed with symphysis pubis dysfunction. This causes problems with physical movement but also hinders sexual enjoyment as stimulation causes me to be in pain for the following 4 days. I hope this helps and you feel better soon.
I suffered a third degree tear and still had internal stitches at 12 weeks, I can't remember when they went completely. I am now 6 months post natal and still feel very 'tight' down there when I am tired! But I can't believe how near to 'normal' I am now compared to just after the birth when I must admit I felt very depressed.