I know that it is a cardinal rule not to co-sleep with your baby if you or your partner is a smoker, and one which I wouldn't dream off breaking, but does anyone know why?
The reason I ask is because I co-slept with my DD when she was breastfeeding and it made my life so much easier, her birth happened to coincide with the only short period that my DH managed to quit cigs. His quitting didn't last long but long but it was long enough for my DD to start sleeping through so luckily there was no co-sleeping and smoking issue.
My problem now is that I am expecting in Feb and I don't think my DH is going to be off the fags at that point and I was considering buying him one of the Gamucci electronic cigarettes in an attempt to help him quit and possibly allow us to co-sleep with the baby. The trouble is I have heard conflicting reasons as to why smoking and co-sleeping are dangerous, some tell me its because smokers sleep differently and this creates a smothering risk and others say that its the chemicals in the smoke residue on their skin and breath that is the dangerous factor.
The thing with the Gamucci cigarette is it still puts nicotine into your system, as a patch would, and it is totally smoke free. So basically I am confused ? if its the smoke issue then the Gamucci would solve that and my DH could meet me half way, if its a sleep issue then may be the Gamucci is a waste of time?
I would love to be able to say that he would quit for our convenience and well-being and so would he but if anyone out there has been heavily addicted to fags you can understand that it ain't that simple and with a newborn the extra stress will make it near impossible for him. He started smoking again last time after my daughter spent 6 hours screaming her head off and we were both at our wits end.
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Smoking husband and co-sleeping with baby...a bit long, sorry!
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loopylula · 01/11/2008 16:24
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