Hi
My FIL is in the final stages of prostrate cancer. He's under his doctor, Christies and the oncology consultant at our local hospital. He was diagnosed 3 years ago but in the last two weeks, it's become apparent that we're talking weeks not months
Last week, out of the blue, a district nurse phoned my MIL and told her that they were now on the district nurse books. I don't really know what that means but the nurse said she/they could help and asked if MIL was coping. MIL said she was (she is, barely).
I know that FIL is fast approaching a time when he's going to need meds that cannot be collected down the local chemist. Also, he can barely walk now and she has to help him to the bathroom, lift him on and off the loo etc. She, incidentally, is near crippled with arthritis.
We all go in every day but FIL won't (yet) let any of us help with his very personal needs - only MIL.
So, I looked through some threads on here but I'm ashamed to say, I couldn't read too far into many of them because they were making me cry , hence, a fresh thread, to ask:-
Can I phone his Dr's on Monday and ask them to send a MacMillan nurse without asking MIL and FIL first OR does MIL have to do it herself? I just reckon if a nurse pitched up and sat with MIL for half an hour and explained how she could help, MIL would let her guard (pride) down and accept the proper help.
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Doodle2U · 27/09/2008 19:03
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